My first time....

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Rant - My first time....

So I took my brother surfing for the first time today, to LM, and it blew. Which got me thinking a bit about my first time[s], and what made me decide to come back for more; this in turn, got me wondering about every else's first times/what made them give up a life of warm tea and lazy mornings in exchange for the early greyness of cold rain and colder waves. So, if you have a tale to tell, please share.

I'll start things off. My first time (mid-winter last year) was sortof a blur of being cold, being screamed at by hooded strangers, and being hit on the head with various boards--probably my own board, though some, i imagine, were other people's. I think we did 2 sessions that day (in santa cruz) at what seemed to be two identical crowded breaks. Meh-.
A little bit later, after hearing tales of the fabled break under the bridge, I stupidly (it was late at night, a few drinks deep..etc.) told a friend that I'd surf ###### with her the next morning, and then it was sortof too late to bail on that without losing credibility. So, there we were, at 6am the next morning, ready to jump off the rocks at the point (i'm guessing the tide must have been a bit high, since it didnt even occur to us to paddle out from the 'elbow', or maybe we just followed someone else out). No crowds (1 dude), cold grey sky (was it raining/windy?), black water, a larger-than-life bridge already skewing one's perception of size and self, and waves--the likes of which were inconceivable to my east-coast go-to-the-mountains-beaches-are-for-tanned-jerseyshoresque-people sensibilities. (I'm guessing they were HH, though that might be an exaggeration.) What ensued was terrifyingly elemental (permanently transforming my perception of the relationship between me and Nature). And that was that: I was glowing for the next 3 days, and was hooked.
I forget most of the specifics of the session, with three exceptions: 1) with literally every wave that would start to shape up under the bridge, I was absolutely positive that it wouldnt swing around enough, and would end up landing on my head and smashing me into the rocks---the result, a perpetual state of terror induced adrenaline-heightened-perception. 2) one nipple-high wave did actually swing around enough to reach my absurd spot waaaaay on the shoulder, and i ended up with my first real drop/ride (it didnt even occur to me to try to stand up). 3) immediately after i paddled out, after Friend had just jumped off ###### and started her rather ill-timed paddle: the one other dude commented "hey, your gf is about to get pounded into the rocks," to which my response was "nah, don't worry. thats not my gf, thats my surf instructor." I'm pretty sure that guy is still a douche to me, i guess understandably so (its pretty miserable watching someone floundering by the rocks, and thinking 'oh shit, if something happens, i'll need to go help')...no hard feelings.

So anyway, i guess the other way to get into surfing is to go to mellow spots, and first learn to surf, then work one's way up to bigger sketchier spots. the obvious drawback of this approach is that the emphasis is on learning to surf (popping up, etc), rather than on the experience of `surfing'. (And, after my FP experience, I definitely went to smaller spots to try to learn how to surf, etc, but that FP experience was why i wanted to learn.) So, share your tales, and for all our sakes, please resist the temptation to turn this thread into a debate over the ethics of newbies surfing FP : )

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Sea-spout
2 years ago

Lacanau, France, 1989. Watching Elko slashing a few hundred yards away while I floundered inside. My fin gashed my head, I went back out.

tehdely
2 years ago

Cryptomail took me out at Bolinas last year on one of those rare afternoons where it was easily 80º+ outside. I think half of SF and Marin had decamped to the beach that day. I went out on some inconceivably huge piece of foam and scored a ride or two on my belly. I think everyone else in the water was as terrified as I was, since there were probably a good 10 people who knew what they were doing and 100 or so of me. Never seen Bo-Bo that crowded before, or since.

Regardless, I didn't get hurt too bad and I got a taste for saltwater.

I'm still terrible at surfing. Just god-awful. I think you either get stoked for it or you don't. I can assure you, what kept me going definitely wasn't some epic ride or two I got early on, because I'm still waiting for one of those. I've just known it was for me from the very beginning.

lee
2 years ago

I first stood up on what was called a "nipper board". Sunny day, clean and probably 1-2 foot waves. I was with a bunch of other kids and we were super excited to be "surfing" and we got loads of waves.

Perhaps a year later, my younger brother and I spent a weekend with a friend's family who lived at the beach. It was cold and raining. I was on a pretty big board and got a bloody nose when it slammed into my face on a badly executed duck dive. I came in to the beach for a bit, waited for the bleeding to stop and paddled back out. I was incredibly inspired by the older brother of the host family who seriously ripped. I remember getting one wave that I stood up on and went across the face. I was also pretty impressed by the extremely laid back and surf-centric family.

I got seriously addicted after spending a week at a beach house with my family that had an old 4 fin "pig" lying around that I rode all day every day. There were some solid overhead swells that week. I remember making at least one drop that seemed just awesome. Bought my first board soon after that. Took until I was 18 or so to surf through the winters, it's a fair bit colder where I come from.

greacen
2 years ago

My first time was in knee-high ripples in HHI South Carolina. I rode a log in bath-temp water for a month. I was able to take my time with seeing the wave, paddling for it... after a few days I could even catch waves and stand up. I was 12 and it was pretty friggin' fun.

I tried to replicate that experience on the 'Jersey shore the following summer and learned exciting lessons about shore-pound. The beatings continued for a few seasons, but I eventually went back to bodysurfing for about a decade.

Flash-forward to the late 90s and I move to the bay area. I decided to pick up a wetsuit and do some bodysurfing. I swim out to the lineup at LM and just watch what folks are doing, where they set up, how they pop-up. Eventually, I pick up a board at a yardsale and start to work on catching waves. Still working.

I never had a mentor or brah to emulate or borrow gear from. That sounds like it could be pretty fun.

lee
2 years ago

@tehdely, "I've just known it was for me from the very beginning." So true for me too!

Chadical
2 years ago

Byron Bay while backpacking post graduation. Took a 1/2 day course on HUUUGE foam boards (I think mine may have been 11 ft from the below photo) and a really, really mellow wave. I - along with my two travel companions - all scored wave after wave on our first day out (I can't stress enough how forgiving the foam/waves were at that spot) while most of the other "tourists" floundered and struggled.

Not only were we hooked, but decided that we must be surf prodigies - the next three Taj Burrows. That night we hit a backpacker bar, sat in the corner staring at the surf videos on the bar's TV (we were still pretty worked from the day's surf outing, even if we were at a level of mastery). Decided that the next day we'd go rent boards and wetsuits and hit the same spot sans instructor.

Flash forward 12 hours. We stride into the surf rental shop, get ourselves some high performance foam longboards, and walk ourselves down to the surf break. Looked a little bigger than the previous day, and no one was in the water at the spot, but we'd gotten it dialed in the day before so no problem. We then spent what seemed like 2 hours battling to make it out past the break in what would later be referred to as "the washing machine". After a particularly vicious multi-wave hold down set (I assume these were actually like 3 ft waves), we'd come into the beach, lay down on the sand, catch breath, drain saltwater from sinuses and lungs, and psych up for another push. None of us made it out.

Undeterred, we came back the next day, got our boards (I think this time we went to less high performance foamers like we had in our lessons) and *asked* where we should go. "Oh, the [blahblah]" they said. Dozens, maybe hundreds, of tourists in the water, lazy waves, a big spray-painted sign on the bluff that said LOCALS ONLY which was being totally disregarded since I don't think anyone there was even close to local. Once again, we all scored plentiful ankle high waves.

It would be 3 years until I picked up surfing again, but I was hooked. I also learned a lesson that I continue to learn. Respect for Mother Ocean, the value of observing and asking for advice from those who know more than you, and a healthy sense of humility in the lineup.

Felix D
2 years ago

Another Bo story here: I'd just moved from Texas (early 2007) and was living with my then boss in Mill Valley while I looked for a place in the city. Saturday morning 7am rolls around and there's a knock on my door followed by "You coming surfing?". I grunted something negative and rolled over, to which the reply was "Want to get fired after 3 days? You're coming surfing!"

After I survived the crazy ride over Mt Tam I was definitely a little frazzled, but ready to surf. I boogie boarded as a kid, so the water wasn't scary (and Bo isn't exactly terrifying, either). I put on the wetsuit back-to-front (naturally), and almost dropped the 10'2" RipCurl I was borrowing before finally paddling out. I think I stood up after about 10 waves, and definitely felt the stoke. I then proceeded to surf 5+ times a week over the next 8 months, so you can say I was hooked!

The moment I remember the most, however, was when I finally grabbed rail going backside - what a rush! Biggest smile on my face, so big it almost hurt. My only regret is that March-April 2007 was a period of epic surf (it's when they filmed One California Day) and I wasn't good enough to appreciate it. Let's just say now I'm ready and waiting for a swell like that to come back through :D

Kooktastic
2 years ago

Grew up in Wyoming. Folks took me to a 2 month vacation in Florida. Spent every day on the beach trying to catch waves with an inflatable raft. Got so dark from the sun that when I got back to school one of the new kids thought I was black.

When it came time to pick colleges, the catalog from UC San Diego had a photo of a building of Scripps on the cliffs above the ocean. I picked my university based upon that photo (pretty stupid way to pick eh?)

Wave Glider
2 years ago

Bolinas circa 1967. Not my first time, that was in San Diego at Mission Bay 1963. However, living in Petaluma, we always surfed the 'Bo.

In the pic, L to R: me (just out of the Army) on the corner of the wall talking with someone, Mike checking his board for nose damage, some female who decided to sun herself right in our area, and my younger brother on the far right. The boards were L to R; 10' Hobie, 10' Gordie (my board), another 10' Hobie, and the green one was a 9'8" Rick. Note the wetsuit "vest only." Couldn't afford a real wetsuit in those days even though the O'Neill long John sleeveless was only about $40. We surfed with no wetsuits most of the time, even in the winter. Those were the hardy days. But then always after a freezing surf, we had a fire, a bottle of Red Mountain, and of course mary jane to warm us up.

Kootzky
2 years ago

@Chadical, I know exactly how you feel. I took a surf lesson in Capitola at Manresa 3 years ago and felt like a rockstar on a massive 10 foot foamer. You know, the lessons where they swim in the water right behind you and push you into the incoming waves. I did by far the best in our group and ignored the advice of the instructor to buy a similar board to learn on for a while. I went straight to a 7'6" gun type thinking I was a natural. Boy was I mistaken. I dont think I ever caught a wave on that thing and wisely sold it a few months later in favor of a 9 foot log. Thank god I did that! Saltwaterholic for life surfing and kiting...

Kooktastic
2 years ago

@waveglider: is that mary jane lying on the towel?

Wave Glider
2 years ago

@kooktastic: no, that was/is Linda, a 'Bo local at the time. You know what I mean. ; )

tracey
2 years ago

I'm about 2 weeks shy of the 2 year anniversary of me learning to surf.

I've posted my story here before. Grew up in a cornfield in Michigan, watched "Endless Summer" and though "wow, that's so cool, too bad I live in Michigan and there's no chance I'll ever live in California."

And then, after 4 years living without heat in Pittsburgh, PA, I packed up my bags, bought a one way ticket to LA.

5 Years in LA and I never surfed. Not once. I wanted a friend to learn with me, I half thought I couldn't do it, or I wasn't meant to be a surfer, I didn't have time, etc etc excuse excuse. Everyone at some point makes excuses for not doing what they want and I was no exception.

Moved to SF, decided there was no reason I couldn't at least try, took a 2 day class in Pacifica.

Now, taking a surf class is a good idea. Rock climbing is a good idea. Taking a 2 day surf class after rock climbing for the first time in 6 months is not the best idea. Oh I was sore. Padding hurt all over, but the waves were forgiving that first day.

I stood up on an 8'6ft hunk of foam about 3 waves in. Maybe a dozen waves in, I turned. Man was I stoked.

Day 2 was the reality check day. Bigger, choppier closeout waves. My back and shoulders at this point burned so bad I could barely paddle. I got skunked. Okay, so surfing is fun, and surfing is hard work. Got it.

So I've been having fun and working hard ever since. (including surfing back home in Michigan)

Oh and today at Bo, I managed to catch my first ever shortboard ride. It was squirrelly and short, but I was up on a 6'3. :D Not a bad milestone to finally hit closing in on my surfing anniversary.

I'm pretty stoked all over again.

Rev.MCC
2 years ago

I was a student at UC Santa Cruz in the mid 80's. I conned a friend from SoCal into taking me out.
He choose Davenport... I was wearing a wetsuit that was too tight and then attached to a waterlogged foam board from the UCSC rental shop.. It was a 5' day and I got pounded.. flat out pounded... Got back to beach with help from aforementioned friend and promptly threw up saltwater for a couple of minutes...

A while later went out at Cowell's on a small day & had fun.. surfed a bit while in school.. Then moved to DC...

20 years later (and having gained half again as much weight as way back when and not having been on a surfboard since) I found myself in Nosara Costa Rica with a buddy on another rental board.. In warm water with a Kimbo teaching me not to step on stingrays.... Got back bought a 10' stewart hydro hull and a wetsuit w/ BOOTIES and have been at it ever since..

I was meant to be a Kook for life!

King of Kooks
2 years ago

La Jolla Shores January 1978. First board for 13th bday. This was in the wake of Vietnam when many of the surfers in San Diego were well-burnt hippies or vets who'd seen too much. So asking for a surfboard was a little dodgy.

caveman
2 years ago

Through some connection of my parents (I was 16 at the time - 1986), I bought a 9' Dextra longboard for $50 from somebody in San Jose. It was hanging in a garage and had only been surfed a couple of times. That's what I learned on at Studio's and the Pit on the central coast. Early learning experience saw 6 stitches under my jaw after I landed on the tail of my board on an overhead day (maybe - I was smaller then). What didn't kill me made me stronger. Or something like that when you're a teenager. I sold the board a year later for double the purchase price at a surf shop and bought a 6'3" tri swallow tail and had to re-learn to surf all over again. Found out later that the surf shop sold the Dextra for $300. That was my first lesson in longboard economics ;)

H20MansLibrary
2 years ago

Honestly can't remember. Some time in the late 1970's I think. I do remember the board though. A long purple Plastic Fantastic with no leash. I remember the smell of burning fiberglass as I drilled a hole through the base of the fin to attach a leash. The board had no leash plug and that was the only way to secure one. Wish I still had that board.

Hodad
2 years ago

Age 12, (very short board) 5'9" Plastic Fantastic also. I learned at the Venice Breakwater/Santa Monica
Moved to the valley at age 20 and just got back into it 25 years later. I think it's a mid life thing haha!
Still on the shortboard.

scooter85
2 years ago

I learned in 1991, first long ride was on a 10' yellow and orange stewart hydrohull in front of oneill's. Been surfing every since.

3c509
2 years ago

My first time out was at Cape Hatteras, NC. I was camping with a buddy who surfed and he loaned me his extra shortboard. It was junky and blown out and needless to say I didn't catch anything. On the paddle in I got creamed by a set and got my face ground into the sand. Fast forward 6 years and I'm living a block from Ocean Beach. I figure living that close to the ocean I might as well learn to surf. I started renting from Aqua and trying to paddle out at different spots along OB. I didn't have a car so options were limited. Most days I never made it past the break but I kept at it every day until I did. My first true ride was a beautiful glassy ride at ######. I still remember the feeling of sheer horror/excitement as I committed to the drop, followed by elation that I didn't totally eat it like I had on every single wave I tried to catch before. It's been another 4 or 5 years since that day and I'm still hooked.

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